I’m Candi and welcome to Candi Cane Corner where I give you the spiciest and realest relationship and dating advice. My love life has been pretty messy, so I’ve learned a lesson or two (or 1000!). Today’s lesson is how to find a partner for cuffing season.
Do you feel that crisp air? Smell the pumpkin spice lattes (although I’ll take my Café Bustelo any day)? See the leaves turning? That can only mean one thing, mi gente—fall is here, and cuffing season is coming in hot.
I’ve had a cuffing season boo every year—’cause a girl has needs! If you’re ready to cozy up when nights get cooler and sweaters get thicker, keep reading. I’ve got the tips you need to snag a boo thang this cuffing season.
How to Find a Partner for Cuffing Season
Be honest about your intentions
Honesty is the best policy! If commitment isn’t on your fall menu, let whoever you’re dating know upfront. And if you’re still single, be clear with anyone new: this is a no-strings-attached situationship to keep you warm through hibernation season.
One last tip: make sure you actually don’t want a committed relationship. ‘Cause if you catch feelings for your cuffing season partner, they just might remind you of the rules you set.
Flip through your contacts
You might have a former cuffing season partner or other situationship that’s open to play. Just make sure they aren’t an ex-flame that broke your heart. Cuffling season should be drama-free and fun, fun, fun!
Dating apps
Some people get lucky on dating apps and actually meet their forever mate. Others swipe right and just end up with duds who only want one thing! Well, guess what? Cuffing season is the perfect time to fire up Tinder or your dating app of choice. Just be real on your profile: you’re looking to vibe, not get booed up. And swipe intentionally—if their profile screams “looking for commitment,” swipe left!
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Ah, the magic of social media! One minute you're looking at funny astrology videos, and the next you stumble upon a cutie’s profile. Choose your social media platform of choice, drop a few likes, and leave some playful comments. But not too many — you're bold, not needy! Once they engage, you’ve got two options: manifest them straight into your DMs or take charge and slide in yourself.
A friend of a friend
Sometimes the perfect cuffing season boo is right under your nose. Ask your friends about their friends, coworkers, or that fine acquaintance they casually mentioned. You’d be surprised how many singles you can meet just by opening your mouth. Just one warning—make sure your cuffing season situationship doesn’t get messy enough to mess with your friendship.
Be out and about
Get social. You’re not meeting anyone at home in your cozy pjs. Hang out with friends, hit up events, and go where singles are. Remember: you’re not looking to connect with your soulmate, just a cutie to keep you warm when nights get chilly. Now, go out there and get cuffed!
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